First-Gen Connect
If your parents or guardians have not completed a college or university degree, you are considered a first-generation student. We’re here to help every step of the way!
First-Gen Connect is designed to support and celebrate first-gen students pursuing a college degree. Through special programming, events and targeted support, first-gen students can build connections, gain valuable resources and feel confident navigating their first year at college.
Watch your email for opportunities to get involved, connect with other first-gen students and celebrate your success throughout the year.
How do I actually “do” college? If you’re asking that question, just know you’re not alone! At OU, over 40% of our incoming first-year students are first-generation college students. View these FAQs for tips on how to “do” college:
How do I pick the right classes?
You’ll work with your academic adviser to choose classes, stay on track to graduation, and get your academic questions answered. We recommend meeting with your adviser at least once a semester. Find your academic adviser.
What are office hours and why should I go?
Office hours are scheduled times outside of class when professors and teaching assistants meet with you to answer questions and go over course material. They give you the opportunity to clarify course expectations, build relationships with your professors, explore post-graduate opportunities, and much more!
What if I struggle in a class?
Struggling in a class is normal, and it’s also normal to use the support at OU early and often when you’re struggling.
- Talk to your professor during office hours: Ask questions, review material, and get clarity on expectations.
- Visit the Academic Success Center (ASC): Get tutoring and study skills support or work with an academic coach.
- Talk to your academic adviser: Get help adjusting your academic plan and understanding your options.
I need to do research for an assignment in one of my courses, but I’ve never done research before. What exactly is research and who can help me?
Research means finding, evaluating, and using reliable information to help answer a question or support your ideas in a paper, project, or presentation. In college, research often involves using books, academic journals, databases, articles, and other credible sources rather than just searching Google. At Kresge Library, librarians can teach you how to research and help you find sources. Schedule a one-on-one research consultation with an OU librarian for help with research.
What if I need help writing a paper or don’t feel confident in my writing?
Visit the OU Writing Center to get help with your writing confidence. They help with essays and assignments, brainstorming ideas, and improving drafts.
The Office of Financial Aid and Scholarships is committed to helping you and your family navigate the cost of your OU education. They can assist you via phone, in-person, virtually, or by email. No appointment necessary.
I’ve been struggling to pay for food. Is there somewhere on campus that can help me?
Yes, and you are not alone! The Golden Grizzlies Pantry provides free food assistance to students. All OU students are welcome to shop at the pantry.
I am facing financial hardship due to an unforeseen or emergency situation. Is there anywhere I can go to for assistance?
Yes! The Student Emergency Relief Fund may be able to provide you with financial assistance. Contact the Dean of Students Office for more information.
Staying active is a great way to relieve stress. Visit University Recreation and Well-Being to use the gym or pool, join fitness classes, participate in Rec Well sports, and utilize well-being services like bright light therapy. All OU students have a free Rec Center membership as long as you’re taking classes that semester.
What if I feel overwhelmed, anxious, or depressed?
Those are feelings many college students experience. Visit the Oakland University Counseling Center for free mental health support through counseling sessions and support groups.
OU also provides a free 24/7, year round mental health crisis line for both residential and commuter students though UWill. In addition to the crisis hotline, students also have access to limited counseling sessions and wellness programming.
Where do I go if I’m feeling sick?
Visit the Graham Health Center for your health check-ups and medical services while on campus. If you’re experiencing extenuating circumstances related to an unforeseen illness or mental health crisis, contact the Dean of Students Office for assistance.
What if I feel like I don’t belong?
That feeling is normal early on, and connection takes time. Start by checking out the 300+ student organizations, connecting with others in the First-Generation MySAIL Group, attending a campus event to meet other students, introducing yourself to your classmates, or participating in a Rec Well sports team.
What events are happening on campus?
Check out the OU Events Calendar for campus-wide events, important dates, and activities!
Who do I go to if I don’t know who to ask?
Start with your academic adviser. They can help you figure it out and guide you to other campus resources.
When should I start thinking about the career field I’ll go into?
You can start now, and you don’t have to figure it out alone. Visit the Career and Life Design Center for help with career exploration, finding internships and jobs, resume building, and interview prep. They even host a career fair each year to introduce OU students to hundreds of employers.
Where can I see a list of student resources?
https://www.oakland.edu/students/
What should I do every day or week while in college?
Make a schedule to prioritize your time between classes, study time, and your personal time.
Go to all of your classes and review your class notes and syllabus to stay on top of deadlines.
Check your OU email daily to know what’s happening on campus.
What’s your best piece of advice for first-gen students?
Ask questions early and often and reach out to someone for support. Remember that you don’t have to do everything by yourself. There are many support services at OU. The most successful students are the ones who use their resources.
Programming for the 2026-27 Academic Year
First-Gen Campus Kickoff for New Students
At your Campus Kickoff, you will experience a "day-in-the-life" as an OU student. Students will receive a full classroom experience and more!
- Friday, August 14, 2026
- 9:30 a.m. - 2:30 p.m.
- Oakland Center
Additonal First-Gen Programming Coming Soon!
Visit MySail to join the conversation in our First-Gen Connect Group!
How to log in:
- Click "Log In" at the top right corner of the page
- Enter your NetID and password
- Scroll to the bottom of the left-hand navigation to find "Groups"
- All students who identified themselves as "first-generation" on their OU application are automatically enrolled!
- You can also change your notification settings under "Account Settings" to get an email when new posts are added.
Check out the group for special announcements, information and discussions posted regularly throughout your first year at OU.
Have questions about the First-Gen at OU group or having trouble logging in? Email [email protected].
Being the first in the family to attend college is something to celebrate for all first-generation students, their families, and supporters! We understand that the transition to college is a significant change for all. Your student is doing something incredibly meaningful, and your support matters more than you may realize! These tips will help you navigate this journey with them:
Encourage Them to Use Campus Resources
- Successful students ask for help early, not just when it’s too late.
- Have your student reach out to:
- Professors
- Academic Advisers
- The Academic Success Center for tutoring and academic coaching
Remind them you’re proud of them
- Avoid focusing only on grades.
- Celebrate effort, not just outcomes.
Have Confidence
- Show confidence in your student’s ability to succeed.
- Your belief and support can help boost their confidence. Even when things feel hard, your encouragement can help them keep going.
- Remind your student that you, OU, and many others believe in their potential, and they should too.
Listen More Than You Solve
- Let them talk through challenges.
- Ask: “How can I support you?”
- Avoid jumping in to fix everything.
Normalize Struggle
- It’s normal for students to feel overwhelmed at times.
- Remind them that challenges are part of the process.
- Struggle does not mean they don’t belong.
- If your student is feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stressed, or depressed, encourage them to take advantage of the mental health and well-being resources available at Oakland University. The OU Counseling Center offers free mental health support for students through counseling services and support groups. UWill provides a free 24/7, year round mental health crisis line for both residential and commuter students. In addition to the crisis hotline, students also have access to limited counseling sessions and wellness programming.
Be Patient with the Transition
- The first semester can be the hardest.
- Students are adjusting academically, socially, and emotionally.
Talk Openly About Finances
- Encourage your student to ask questions about bills, financial aid, and deadlines.
- Help them stay organized and aware.
- Understanding finances helps reduce stress and confusion.
Stay Connected (But Give Space)
- Check in regularly.
- Let them take the lead in sharing.
- Support their independence.
- Balance is key.
In our "Faces of First-Gen" series, hear from other first-generation students, staff and faculty on their experiences.
Orientation & New Student Programs
318 Meadow Brook Road
Rochester, MI 48309-4454
(248) 370-4653
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Office Hours:
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Orientation & New Student Programs
318 Meadow Brook Road
Rochester, MI 48309-4454
(location map)
(248) 370-4653
[email protected]
Office Hours:
Mon-Fri: 8 a.m. - 5 p.m.
